How can I find a Christian counselor for myself or my child?

That's the million-dollar question, isn't it? Be patient and prayerful. Finding the right counselor can be like finding a best friend. There has to be just the right chemistry. Here are some links to get you started.
Focus on the Family offers a network referral system that could be helpful for you. Search by specialties, state, and some cities.
We recommend intensives for adult therapy or marriage counseling. Why drag out your work for years and years if you could become more whole for your entire family in a matter of a few weeks? That does not mean you won't still have healing to do, but you can jump-start it at the right Christian program. Some that we recommend include: